“WHAT WILL THEY SAY WHEN I’M GONE?”

1 Samuel 31.

INTRODUCTION.

LEGEND: Told by Peter Marshall, one time Chaplain to the US Senate. “Tells of a merchant in Bagdad who sent his servant to the market. Before long the servant returned, white and trembling, very agitated said to his master, ‘Down in the market I was jostled by a woman in the crowd and when I turned around I saw that it was death that jostled me. She looked at me and made a threatening gesture. Master, please lend me a horse that I may hasten away to avoid her. I will ride to Samarra and hide there, and death will not find me!’

          The merchant lent the horse and the servant galloped away in great haste.

Later the merchant went to the market and saw death standing in the crowd. He went and asked her, ‘Why did you frighten my servant this morning? Why did you make a threatening gesture?’

          ‘That was not a threatening gesture,’ Death said, ‘It was only a start of surprise. I was astonished to see him in Bagdad, for I have an appointment with him tonight in Samarra!’”

Each of us has an appointment with death – Have you faced up to the fact of death? Your own and others!

How we deal with the question of death – whether ours or others – will have a profound impact on how we live our lives.

It is also true that how we live our lives will have a profound impact on how we die – not the manner of our physical death as we have not control over that unless we plan suicide – but on our attitude towards dying!

We come to a stage in the life of David where Saul the king, David’s predecessor dies in battle along with his son Jonathan.

What do we learn from Saul’s death AND What do we learn from David’s reaction to the death of Saul, who hated and pursued David and to the death of Jonathan whom David loved very deeply!

1. SAUL’S DEMISE.

1 Samuel 31 is an account of how King Saul dies. In the end he takes his own life – not that he would have lived much longer if he hadn’t – the Philistines archers had critically wounded Saul and soon they would be upon him and you can be sure they would have had their sport with him. In the same battle all of Saul’s sons are killed so he loses not only his own life but all his heirs – including Jonathan David’s dear friend.

It is a pathetic sight. The great King Saul — dead — and he had been at the beginning –

1 Samuel 10:1, 6-7

1 Then Samuel took a flask of oil and poured it on Saul’s head and kissed him, saying, “Has not the LORD anointed you leader over his inheritance?    …….6 and you will be changed into a different person. 7 Once these signs are fulfilled, do whatever your hand finds to do, for God is with you. (NIV)

It is a pathetic sight – the once great king mortally wounded by a Philistine arrow – the grounded littered with dead bodies.

He asks his armour bearer to finish him off … 1 Samuel 31:4

4 Saul said to his armour-bearer, “Draw your sword and run me through, or these uncircumcised fellows will come and run me through and abuse me.”

Isn’t it interesting that he is more concerned about his image before the enemy – even after his death the indignity of having his body used for the sport of the Philistines – BUT he is more concerned about that than he is about his relationship with God whom he is about to meet!

It is tragic but true that often we are far more concerned about our image before others / “What will people say?” / Disobeying God … refusing to live God’s way has that effect. It dulls our spiritual senses and we lose contact with what God thinks and with what God might say.

Of course Saul’s demise did not start on that fateful day on the battlefield. This day need not have been like this. Saul’s demise had started when little by little, day by day he had compromised … not followed God’s instructions but taken things into his own hands. Not just a slip here and there but a persistent disobedience to the instructions of God.

Saul is a classic example in the Bible of one who having being bless by God and anointed for ministry, in his case as king of Israel, but then because of willful, persistent, selfish desire, not only loses the blessing of God on his life BUT disaster is inevitable. We can never disobey God with impunity, there are always consequences.

We might go for a long time thinking, like Saul that everything will be all right – Maybe we have disobey – we have willfully chosen to do our own thing – whatever that might be —

— compromise in a physical sexual  relationship

— compromise in the area of business ethics

— compromise by only telling half the truth to save face and protect image

and God doesn’t send a bolt of lightening from heaven and so we think he doesn’t really mind and we have gotten away with it and so we dull our consciences and do it again (or something else) BUT make no mistake, God is not mock.

The unbeliever who refuses to believe in Christ for salvation will suffer the judgement of God in the final analysis.

The believer who like Saul disobeys will suffer the loss of God’s blessings and rewards – you may not lose your salvation but you will lose the joy and blessing!

Saul lost his ministry of being king – he lost God’s presence and thus his ability to be a blessing to others  … in fact he became a channel of doom. Because of his disobedience his family suffered, David and his family and followers suffered, the whole nation suffered, the result was a sound defeat by the enemy … the death of Saul and his sons … the nations remained in a state of disarray for years after.

What was Saul’s epitaph? Saul himself gives us his epitaph back in  …. 1 Samuel 26:21   21 Then Saul said, “I have sinned. Come back, David my son. Because you considered my life precious today, I will not try to harm you again. Surely I have acted like a fool and have erred greatly.” (NIV)

I have acted like a fool – some translation “I have played the fool” – How aptly this described the life of Saul. Such promise, such opportunity. He was the pick of the litter. Head and shoulders above his fellow Israelites. He was anointed by God. He was handsome. He was strong. He was a natural leader. He had every advantage  BUT he played the fool.

Sidlow Baxter writes :…

“A man plays the fool ….

• when he neglects his godly friends, as Saul neglected Samuel.

Neglect of godly friends.

In the earlier part of his life Saul sought Samuel the prophet – Samuel was a godly man – Saul was determined to follow his own council and his own opinions. He was not comfortable in the presence of Samuel.

One of the first signs that things are slipping spiritually, in our lives, is when we loose the desire to spend time with God’s people in worship and fellowship.

• when he goes on enterprises for God before God has sent him, as Saul did.

Running ahead of God.

In 1 Sam 14 – Trouble with the  Philistines – Saul asks God what to do but God doesn’t answer immediately so Saul makes a rash decision that would have Cost the life of his son Jonathan had the men not intervened. [And there were other examples!!]

We can be so impatient – we want God to guide us but he must do it now and do it our way – when our problems are not quickly solved OR our desires not satisfied we are tempted to make things happen/ to manipulate / to scheme….

The number of people I know who have be too impatient to wait for God’s timing and provision and married in haste and you know the second half of the proverb … repent at leisure!!

• when he disobeys God in even seemingly small matters, as Saul did: for such disobedience nearly always leads on to worse defaults.

Little sins, unconfessed, grow into habitual patterns of sinful behaviour.

When Saul disobeyed in the early part of his kingship — instead of repenting and admitting his wrong he made excuses, he tried to cover up. And one by one the disobediences became a pattern of behaviour.

• when he tries to cover up his disobedience to God by religious excuses, as Saul did. “To obey is better than sacrifice”.

A religious facade does not fool God.

Saul fights the Amalakites [1 Sam. 15] – the instructions are to destroy everything BUT Saul thinks he knows better and he keeps back some of the animals under the guise of offering them to God as sacrifices.

This is one of the most subtle temptations of all – being religious without really having a heart for God.

It can come in the form of doing good works, attending Church, saying prayers, studying the Bible … all of which are good things to do … BUT if these come from a heart that is far from God he is neither fooled nor impressed.

Remember that Jesus saved his harshest criticism for the Religious people of his day – they had all the outward trappings but  they were self-righteous hypocrites who were more interested in serving self and their own religious laws than in serving God.

Is it any wonder Jesus gave this warning …

Matthew 7:20-27 20 Thus, by their fruit you will recognise them.

21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?’ 23 Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’

24 “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. 27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.” (NIV)

Samuel to Saul “To obey is better than sacrifice”.

• when he allows some jealousy or hated to master and enslave and deprave him, as Saul did, toward David.

Harbouring bitterness / jealousy eats you up inside.

Sometimes we carry deep feelings of hurt and jealousy and bitterness because of what someone may have said or done in the past. If these are left to fester they will only do us harm.

I am not saying that there is an instant remedy – sometimes it takes years to work through issues and deal with hurts … BUT are we making an effort … OR enjoying wallowing in feelings of self-pity, etc

• when he turns from God, from the God he has grieved, and seeks an alternative in spiritism …

Seeking spiritual guidance / fulfillment in something / some-one other than God.

This is one of the hallmarks of the society in which we live. There is a great interest in the paranormal, [horoscopes, psychics, New Age religions ….] , trying to find fulfillment within ourselves, or through work, or possessions …….

And Christians are not immune from these attitudes … we can have a form of Christianity yet still be living for / worshipping God plus….

THE end of all these ways of sin and folly is moral and spiritual suicide. We can only finish such a down-grade course with the pathetic groan of Saul “I have played the fool!”

When anyone takes a path away from God – no matter how successful the world may acclaim one – God’s assessment will be agree with Saul’s “I have played the fool!”

WHAT WILL THEY SAY OF YOU/ME WHEN WE ARE GONE?

That will depend on what we are and how we live now.

The question is then “Who am I really trying to please?” “Whose opinion of us matters?”

We were made to please God .. The psalmist {David}expresses it this way ….

Psalm 103:1-2

1 [Of David.]

Praise the LORD, O my soul;

all my inmost being, praise his holy name.

2 Praise the LORD, O my soul,

and forget not all his benefits — (NIV)

BUT sin often causes us to lower our sights and seek other kinds of approval rather than God’s. We are often guilty of spending enormous amounts of energy seeking the approval of substitute gods.

We want to know that there is someone who is pleased with us who values us and what we have accomplished. We need the approval of other people, that is not wrong, except when it is to the exclusion of God’s evaluation of us. This was Saul’s problem – more concerned what people thought than what God thought.

ILLUS. I remember going to the funeral of an uncle of mine – a man we called uncle – he was not a blood relation. He was a bombastic, selfish man who lived at the club with his mates leaving his wife alone at home for hours and hours. The tribute at the funeral may me wonder if I was at the right Chapel!!

WHAT WILL THEY SAY WHEN I AM GONE?

Will people have to make up kind things to say at your funeral? If God was the one giving the tribute at your funeral what would he say?

What would be your epitaph? Would it be like ……

• David – “A man after God’s own Heart”
• Abraham – “The Friend of God”
• Enoch – “He walked with God”
• Caleb – “Wholeheartedly followed the Lord”
• Stephen – “a man full of faith and the Holy Spirit”
• Jesus – “Surely this was a righteous man / the Son of god”

IF YOU KNEW YOU HAD A FEW MONTHS TO LIVE WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE / DO?

• Would it be to spend more time at the office? NO – with your loved ones!
• Would you make more of an effort to speak to that friend about Jesus?
• How would your time set aside to prayer and study the Bible be affected?
• Who would you go to to put right some wrong?

“When the time comes to die make sure that is all you have to do!” (Ed McCulley)

Do we want the assessment of our lives to be that of Saul’s “I HAVE PLAYED THE FOOL!”

OR

Would we like the assessment to be that of another Saul – Saul of Tarsus who became the Apostle Paul in the NT 2 Timothy 4:7-8 7 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. 8 Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day — and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing. (NIV)

How we live our lives will determine how we face our death – like King Saul in the OT in fear and rebellion and out of touch with God.

OR

Like Saul [Paul] in the NT looking forward with joy and hope to heaven because we know that as far as it depends on me , I have done all that is possible to live a life that pleases God.

Hebrews 13:15-16

15 Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise — the fruit of lips that confess his name.       [not just warm fuzzy feelings – but as the writer clarifies]     16 And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased. (NIV)

SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY!

1 Samuel 27 & 29 – 30.

INTRODUCTION.

ILLUS.: Harry is a Christian – he had had his own business BUT because of external pressures and unfair competition from  the opposition, things had become extremely bad – He believed God had seen him through a few scraps. However, the ongoing struggle to keep his head above water wore him down.

It seemed that the only way out – the only way to survive was to join a bigger outfit – one of the opposition. As first it had gone well – he prospered – his employees were happy.

The business ethics of the new company were very suspect – Harry compromised – he tried to operate with double standards – eventually the cracks showed – the new company decided they no longer wanted him – his own employees were very unhappy — it seemed as if he had lost everything for good. He was at the end of himself.

If Harry – via a time machine – met David in the Pub on a Friday night they would have had a lot in common —

For years now David had been hard pressed … the decade of his 20’s was spent in the wilderness with a price on his head. At a young age he was chosen by God and anointed by Samuel to be the future king of Israel. He had served in the court of King Saul as a friend and musician. He became a national hero by killing Goliath and then many other victories against the Philistines. BUT then he was driven from these accomplishments and admirations to survive as best he could in the deserts around Palestine. We don’t know the exact time but it was about 10 years that David was a fugitive in the wilderness.

During his time in the wilderness many came to be his followers – this group grew to about 600 men – along with their wives and children  – it is a sizeable group that David is leading.

Those who came are described as follows … 1 Samuel 22:2 2 All those who were in distress or in debt or discontented gathered round him, and he became their leader.

This is the profile of David’s ‘congregation’  – people whose lives are characterized by debt, distress and discontent. They are not exactly the cream of Israelite society!! They are more like the dregs, the rejects, the misfits, the dropouts!! This was David’s company for 10 years – they lived together, worked together, worshipped together under David’s leadership. This ragtag, motley crew were the embryonic Holy Nation of God that would emerge under the Kingship of David.

Does this not sometimes remind us of what the church is like – are we not sometimes // often disappointed with the community of God’s people. We come to church looking for God and we find a motley crew of imperfect debtors, distressed and discontents.

So many people end up saying “I love God but I hate the church”.

BUT we need to remember that Jesus ate with crooks and prostitutes! “It is the sick not the healthy that need a Doctor” Jesus said.

Paul … 1 Corinthians 1:26-31

26 Brothers, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth. 27 But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. 28 He chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things — and the things that are not — to nullify the things that are, 29 so that no-one may boast before him. 30 It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God — that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption. 31 Therefore, as it is written: “Let him who boasts boast in the Lord.” (NIV)

You see the company of God’s people is made up of those we would not ordinarily choose to be with (and who would not ordinarily choose to be with us) BUT we had better get used to it! David did! Jesus did! Paul did!

You see, we don’t first become good and nice and then get God!! First we get God – ( or rather he gets us) – and then over a life time God trains us in his ways!

1. THE DOWNWARD SLIDE. (CHAPTERS 27&29)

Towards the end of his outlaw days David having twice spared King Saul’s life, having been prevented from killing Nabal and seeing how God had provided and protected and lead him … NOW becomes despondent … despair sets in.

1.1. Despair.

This wilderness experience has dragged on for a long time and David is in despair … listen … 1 Samuel 27:1

1 But David thought to himself, “One of these days I shall be destroyed by the hand of Saul. The best thing I can do is to escape to the land of the Philistines. Then Saul will give up searching for me anywhere in Israel, and I will slip out of his hand.” (NIV)

Thus began 16 months of what the movie title calls “Sleeping with the enemy!”

What led to this …

He takes his eyes off God and looks to himself … But David thought to himself…

He had been assured by God that he would be the next King of Israel – through Samuel, Abigail, Jonathan and even Saul himself. BUT he has become irrational and pessimistic. He ends up in the depth of despondency – he begins to function as if he is not chosen by God – as if he is not one of God’s children.

It is possible to be a Christian BUT to be disobedient and to behave as if one is not a Christian … at this point in David’s life he is operating on carnal rather than godly standards.

David goes to live amongst the Philistines, with King Achish of Gath … Isn’t that where Goliath came from? YES! Are these people not Israel’s enemy? YES! Didn’t David go here before and nearly get himself killed? YES!   SO what on earth is he thinking about going back??

Last time he was alone — this time he has his two wives and children and his 600 men and their followers with him. What he does affects his whole company!!

None of us lives to ourselves! We often hear in our society the cry! “What I do with my life is my business — I am not hurting anyone!!” BUT we do! No one lives independently from everyone else. What I do or do not do has an effect on those around me — when I make a decision that is contrary to God’s order of things it effects those who trust me, depend on me,  look up to me  — my children, my friends ….

ILLUS.: Modern example is parents in the last generation — many sent their Children to church/SS but could not be bothered to get involved themselves — is it any wonder that the present generation is ignorant and uninterested in the things of God??

Their actions have had a profound affect on their children // and the nation!

David’s action was born out of despair — this led eventually to duplicity

1.2. Duplicity.

David had moved away from God and at first things seemed to be OK. The pressure was gone  – he felt safe from Saul, he wasn’t been hunted down. He had been right that Saul would not follow him into enemy territory. What relief he must have felt. He had a false scene of security.

Sins and disobedience often has temporary pleasure — it can be exhilarating. We are fools if we portray sin as unpleasant. It is pleasurable and exhilarating … FOR A TIME!! Sin’s pleasures are always passing … ultimately they never satisfy! NEVER!

It is not always that we deliberately set out to sin. “I have had enough of God it is time for a bit of sin!!” NO! Sometimes the responsibility of following God feels too much and we simply drift … we want to release the pressure .. BUT little do we realise that the short-term benefits are soon overtaken by long-term disaster.

David started to lead a double life – he and his men had been used to a free and adventurous life in the wilderness now they chaffed under the constant scrutiny of King Achish. SO David persuade Achish to give him the town of Ziklag.

From there David raided the tribes of the Negev – [the South] the Geshurites, Girzites and Amalekites were Israel’s enemies not the Philistines – Achish thought David was raiding the South of Judah – that is what David told him- so David lied ….in order to conceal his deceit he always killed every person in the tribes he raided to stop Achish discovering the truth.

When you operate under a cloak of secrecy you don’t want anyone asking so you are vague, you cover up and you lie!

David professed allegiance to Achish but he was lying to him. Achish trusted David and when the Philistine commanders challenged him he defended David …

1 Samuel 29:3-9 3 The commanders of the Philistines asked, “What about these Hebrews?”

Achish replied, “Is this not David, who was an officer of Saul king of Israel? He has already been with me for over a year, and from the day he left Saul until now, I have found no fault in him.”

……… AND TO DAVID

9 Achish answered, “I know that you have been as pleasing in my eyes as an angel of God;

All through this period of David’s life we have no record of him writing any psalms; he seems to have hung up his harp and lost his song and the only mention of God comes from the heathen King Achish.

All through this time instead of fighting the Philistines who are the enemies of Israel, God’s people – David is cozying up to them!!

This kind of duplicity eventually cracks and ends in disillusionment.

1.3. Disillusionment.

The time eventually comes when the Philistines are again at war with Israel and David has the dilemma of fighting with the Philistines against his own people. His life is completely back to front. He had fled from fighting Saul NOW he is faced with exactly that. BUT the Philistine Commanders don’t want him and he and his men are sent packing back to Ziklag.

Trying to live a double life always ends in disillusionment – I can’t claim to belong to God while at the same time trying to live without reference to God and his principles. When one first walks away from God because the responsibility of spiritual discipline seems too heavy, at first it feels pleasureable and freeing, maybe even delightful. But after a while the bills fall due and you have to pay the piper.

David and his men are disillusioned. It is never nice to be told you are not wanted.  So they head back to Ziklag … 1 Samuel 30:1-4

1 David and his men reached Ziklag on the third day. Now the Amalekites had raided the Negev and Ziklag. They had attacked Ziklag and burned it, 2 and had taken captive the women and all who were in it, both young and old. They killed none of them, but carried them off as they went on their way.

3 When David and his men came to Ziklag, they found it destroyed by fire and their wives and sons and daughters taken captive. 4 So David and his men wept aloud until they had no strength left to weep. (NIV)

Put yourself in David’s place – he is disowned by both sides – Philistine and Israel — spiritually he is far from God — he comes back to his home tired and disillusioned  and everything that he and his men own have been captured or burned to the ground — all he has is an ash heap!! And then to crown it all even his men turn against him. 1 Samuel 30:6 6 David was greatly distressed because the men were talking of stoning him; each one was bitter in spirit because of his sons and daughters……

At this point there seems little to choose between David and King Saul.

2. THE ROAD TO RECOVERY.  (Chapter 30)

2.1. Repentance.

David had reach the lowest rung on the ladder – it is here that you either jump into oblivion or cry out to God for forgiveness and rescue — and this is where we see the difference between David and Saul — David does cry out to God!!! …. . But David found strength in the LORD his God.  [30:6] (NIV)

For the first time in 16 months David looks up and says “Oh God Help me!”

And he does — he always does. David makes no demands — sets no conditions — David finds that God has allowed this not to destroy him but rather to bring him to his knees and force him to look up!

Maybe you have know the joys and delights of walking with Christ. The excitement of being a Christian BUT like David you have drifted — you are a Christian but you are not living like one. NOW the disillusionment and depression of being away from God is killing you. Reach up! Come home! God is waiting, willing to forgive and ready to restore. It is time to return …. to find strength again in the Lord your God.

2.2. Reassurance.

David was repentant that day at Ziklag – he doesn’t rush off after the raiders he is prepared to wait for God.

The temptation so often is to ask for God’s help and then rush on ahead with our own solutions — David waited for God to show him what to do through Abiathar the priest.

2.3. Restoration.

With God’s reassurance David sets out to undo, as far as he could , the damage  his own conduct had caused. A third of his men [200] can’t continue BUT the rest press on and all is recovered.

This is due not to David’s prowess but to God’s mercy. The evidence that David has learned a lesson is that he is so generous to the 200 who could not make it …. 1 Samuel 30:23-25

23 David replied, “No, my brothers, you must not do that with what the LORD has given us. He has protected us and handed over to us the forces that came against us. 24 Who will listen to what you say? The share of the man who stayed with the supplies is to be the same as that of him who went down to the battle. All shall share alike.” 25 David made this a statute and ordinance for Israel from that day to this. (NIV)

The restoration was not just of David’s family and goods but a restoration of the relationship between David and his God!!

3. IN ZIKLAG; WHERE WAS GOD?

This Ziklag period in David’s life is a good example of how when we move away from God he doesn’t abandon us. David is living in enemy territory – the Biblical narrator doesn’t pass judgement on David but simply tells us what David does.

Even in the place – Ziklag where David has gone – God is working out his purposes for David. God protects David from violating his covenant – he works out David’s salvation. Spiritual life is not so much what we do for God but what God does for us!

We live in a world system and a society that is basically contrary to God’s way. The Bible tells us that the world is under the power of the Evil One. Sometimes as Christians was drift or are sucked into that rather than towards God. BUT God is behind the scenes doing for us what we aren’t doing for ourselves.

3.1. Reality.

There are many people who are “living under the Patronage of Achish of Gath” – [Peterson]

Many of these are distressed about this – they feel guilty but honestly don’t know what to do. — jobs with companies that do business in ways that  show no regard for God’s principles. — married to spouses who despise the name of Jesus — tangled up in a system that exploits the poor and ignores the oppressed. There are few Christians who have not  experienced such thing for a time. This is the reality of life.

Peterson – “God is perfectly capable of working out his purposes in our lives even when we can’t lift a finger to help. Better yet, God is faithfully working out our salvation even when every time we lift a finger it seems to contribute to the other side, the Philistine side.”

3.2. Company.

In the midst of David’s Ziklag experience he had a community of his people around him … but these were the discontented, the debtor and the distressed.

This is not just David’s story, it is also the story of the 600 and their families, we know few names but this is a story about community.

“The Christian life is never just my story; it is a community of stories” – [Peterson] … each of our stories affects the other and is affected by it!! As we come into the Christian community and into the Church we discover that there are people in that community that we do not like / who irritate us // who cause us to be angry // hurt …. but God has called them to repentance too. We are a company of people – God’s people. God doesn’t call perfect people — he calls sinners .. you and me.

3.3. Sovereignty.

Having saved individuals God brings them together and sets about the life-time task of  changing them to be what HE wants. As we rub against each other and bump into each other … we see inconsistencies, failure, faithlessness, we moralise and doubt and ridicule, we whinge and complain  etc. ..etc….

BUT then we begin to see other things …. sacrifice, humility, honesty, courage in difficulty, joy in worship, faithfulness through suffering, obedience against the odds, constancy in prayer,…. in short we begin to see Christ lived out before us in the lives of our fellow Christians – NOT perfect but trophies to the sovereign work of God who is working out his purposes in our lives  – And in Ziklag of all places!!

MEN BEHAVING BADLY  …     

                           … WOMAN SAVES THE DAY!

1 Samuel 25:1-44.

INTRODUCTION.

Life is a very complex tangle of relationships … family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquaintances, customers, clients, strangers … our paths cross with many others and life is such that we will at various time be insulted, hurt, rejected, criticized, ignored, victimised and so on.

Christians are not cut off from the realities of life – we do not live in a spiritual cocoon.

A very common experience is that we start off our spiritual life with enthusiasm and promise – a desire to know and serve God – like David to ‘have a heart for God’ – BUT then somewhere along the line we are spoiled and corrupted. We can so easily end up shipwrecked.

None of us is exempt from the potential of this process. Someone offends us, crosses us and we don’t get what we want and all our self-importance and ego surges to defend. And we set out to avenge our offended feelings and image!

If ever this applied to anyone it applied to David in his reaction to Nabal. If it was not for the intervention of a wise and gracious and courageous, not to mention, beautiful woman, David would have made a huge mistake.

So this is a story about MEN BEHAVING BADLY …. and about a WOMAN WHO SAVES THE DAY!

BACKGROUND

David and his band of followers moved out of the desert area around En-Gedi to an area called Maon. In the area lived a wealthy farmer named Nabal … his sheep and goats were out in the fields grazing. Israel is wild, rugged country – it still is, and not just geographically but also politically – wild groups of raiders would often fight with the shepherds and steal the stock – BUT David and his men were different and while they were in the area they protected the shepherds from these raiders.

It was customary, that when shearing time came, and a feast was held, those who had protected the sheep were rewarded for their protection. No law but like tipping a waiter for service given.

Nabal is shearing his sheep. So it is payday. David sends a delegation to Nabal … he sends warm greetings … wishes him well … and asks for some provisions.

1. NABAL THE FOOLISH FARMER.

Nabal is a wealthy man – 1000 goats and 3000 sheep – v.2 tells us that he is very wealthy – Heb. ‘heavy’ – this guy is loaded.

David is not asking for half his wealth – just a few provision for services rendered. NB that David doesn’t demand specific things or amounts … ………………. 1 Samuel 25:8 ……………. Please give your servants and your son David whatever you can find for them.’ ”

Listen to Nabal’s response … 1 Samuel 25:10-11

10 Nabal answered David’s servants, “Who is this David? Who is this son of Jesse? Many servants are breaking away from their masters these days. 11 Why should I take my bread and my water, and my meat I have slaughtered for my shearers, and give it to men coming from who knows where?”

Nabal acts as if he has never heard of David – He not only refuses his request but he insults him … he lumps him together with the common criminals who are infesting the wilderness. He likens him to nothing more than a runaway slave!

Nabal is a self absorbed, egotistical fool. NB the number of times he uses the words ‘I’ – ‘my’ – ‘mine’ in v.11

Nabal’s name is very appropriate – it lit. means ‘fool’. Remember that in the Bible ‘fool’ is not someone who is simpleminded but someone who says ‘There is no God’ – not necessarily an atheist but a person who lives as if there is no God.

Nabal is also a harsh man – hard, stubborn and belligerent … 1 Samuel 25:3 3 His name was Nabal………… a Calebite, … surly and mean in his dealings. (NIV)

We might say that Nabal is not the most gracious man in the world!

His refusal and insult sparks a swift and violent reaction from David.

2. DAVID A RAGING REVENGER.

We are not exactly sure how long David and his men had been living in the wilderness – their provisions would have been meagre – they were looking forward to a few roasted lambs and some home baking. There are few beasts more irritable than hungry men.

ILLUS.: Remember when I was in the army – out on patrol for days in the desert in SWA [now Namibia] – coming back to base the patrol always got first place in line for food and the cooks would give bigger portions – because the camp commander knew that when men stomachs are full they are more manageable!!

When David’s hears the report of Nabal’s response he loses it. He is so angry. He is outrage. He wants vengeance. He is going to kill this rude, harsh, ungrateful fool. He is going with 400 armed men – to deal with a farmer and a few shepherds – a bit of overkill isn’t it??!

David over-reacts – doesn’t this touch a chord within each of us? someone hit us at a vulnerable spot – we feel hurt, insulted, snubbed, our pride is dented and we react, in fact we usually over-react. I know I have done it!!

When Saul was out to kill David he had been a model of patience and godliness … he had treated Saul with dignity as God’s anointed.

When King Saul felt threatened he went and wiped out the entire town of Nob …now David is on the verge of become like Saul … out to get anyone who threatened his status.

“David! Where is your self-restraint … a few insulting words from a fool like Nabal and you have gone crazy!”

Doesn’t this expose something in us that should make us cringe. It shows how sinful the heart really is even when it has been renewed by grace!

This incident tells us that is doesn’t matter how long I have been a Christian or how many battles with temptation I may have won. I may have defeated sin in this and that area of my life yesterday BUT I can so easily fall flat on my face today!

ILLUS.: There is a saying in sports circles that you are only as good as your last game!

A similar principle operates in the spiritual realm … we may have been Christians for many years … struggled to overcome various sins and temptations and then at the pinprick of an insult we explode into vengeful attack mode! To show restraint in dealing with one person who is unkind or hateful is no guarantee that I will not explode at the next one who does it.

That is what David did … by his reaction David is behaving and becoming just like Nabal. The very thing that he despises is the very thing that he is succumbing to!!

Nabal is a fool and a vulgar man and that provokes David to react with like vulgarity … Listen to his crudity … you might not like this but this is what it says in the KJV … 1 Samuel 25:21-22 21 Now David had said, Surely in vain have I kept all that this fellow  [NABAL] hath in the wilderness, so that nothing was missed of all that pertained unto him: and he hath requited me evil for good. 22 So and more also do God unto the enemies of David, if I leave of all that pertain to him by the morning light any that pisseth against the wall. (KJV)

When we react in an ungodly way to ungodly insults we are becoming like the one you insulted or offended us.

So we have Nabal the ‘Fool’ and David the ‘Revenger’ … MEN BEHAVING BADLY!

And it would have ended in disaster and blood shed had it not been for the swift and wise intervention of a beautiful woman!

… A WOMAN SAVES THE DAY!

3. ABIGAIL A GRACIOUS GO-BETWEEN.

Abigail is Nabal’s wife … and what a contrast to her fool of a husband.

1 Samuel 25:3 3 ….. his wife’s name was Abigail. She was an intelligent and beautiful woman, but her husband, a Calebite, was surly and mean in his dealings. (NIV)

She is a lovely woman within and without. She is a wise woman whose decisions make good sense. She is governed by good-logical thinking rather than by her emotions. And if that weren’t enough she was also good looking.

She get a report from the servants that her foolish husband had insulted David and that he is on his way with 400 men to deal with it.

It is obviously common knowledge that she is the sensible wise one in the family – the servants know that they can go to her rather than to her husband. It makes you wonder who was the brains behind the accumulation of the wealth anyway!

The servants come to her. She is approachable. Her husband is not. She see her husband for what he is. She knows his weaknesses and at this moment he is weak and she doesn’t fight him but protects.

She doesn’t become all ‘super-spiritual’ – “I think I should pray about this!”

There is a time to pray and there is a time to act – this situation demanded action. BUT it is clear from the way she approaches David that she is a godly woman.

We can’t suddenly become spiritual when a crisis hit, we need to be developing our spiritual strength on and on-going basis – in worship and fellowship with God and with his people [the church] so that when a crisis hits we have the spiritual wisdom and courage to act decisively.

This was Abigail … and here she acts in favour of her spouse.

Some of the best counsel a man can get is from his wife, who knows him better than anyone else on earth. The best kind of help / direction / and ever rebuke often comes from our spouses. They know when to do it, how to do it and it is usually done with the right motives!!

If Nabal had consulted his wife in this matter the incident wouldn’t have occurred. BUT for Abigail to confront Nabal now would be suicidal and so she acts on his behalf .. without his knowledge!

There is some beauty that is only skin deep and is applied from without and sometimes it is accompanied by an empty head and a shallow life. NOT SO with  Abigail who is both beautiful and wise!

She puts together a huge hamper and goes to meet David and his men.

She bows before David with reverence and respect. She doesn’t try to cover her husband’s foolishness or make excuses. BUT she takes the responsibility upon herself as the go-between / mediator. She stands BETWEEN NABAL AND DAVID bearing gifts of food and appealing to reason!

She also acts as a mediator BETWEEN GOD AND DAVID.

What she says to David can be summarized like this ..  “David please, please don’t do this thing. It is not worthy of the future King of Israel. Remember God’s anointing on you. Remember God’s mercy to you. Don’t stoop to fighting personal grudge battles. Your task is to fight the battles of the Lord.”

The she said something that struck at David’s heart and must have hit him between the eyes like the stone from his sling had hit Goliath between the eyes. … 1 Samuel 25:29 29 Even though someone is pursuing you to take your life, the life of my master will be bound securely in the bundle of the living by the LORD your God. But the lives of your enemies he will hurl away as from the pocket of a sling. (NIV)

“Remember Goliath, David, how you went out in the power of the God of Israel!” David wasn’t doing that now.

David wasn’t about God’s business he was out to exact personal vengeance and if he didn’t stop he would damage his track record and he would have blood on his hands.

David has been out in the wilderness NOT to see how strong and resilient he is BUT how to discover the strength and faithfulness of God. When God puts us through the wilderness experience it is not to make us self-reliant and independent BUT rather to make us depend entirely on God himself.

Nabal was no Goliath. If David hadn’t stopped he would have been no better than Nabal. One fool in this story is enough.

Astonishingly David stops – listens – looks! Here on her knees between David’s army and Nabal is Beauty – Abigail speaks and she speaks God back into David’s life.

Peterson “ The accelerating momentum of the story is stopped and then reversed by Abigail, marginal Abigail. Abigail is marginal because she’s a women in a man-dominated world. Abigail is marginal because she is weaponless in a sword-rattling world.”

Abigail’s beauty both inward and outward – her action and her words – her beauty shows up David’s plunge into ugliness and he sees and he hears God again.

Her beauty puts David in touch with the Lord again, and with the beauty of the Lord. He suddenly realises who he is, what he is doing and what his life is for.

LESSONS FOR US>

Abigail brings David back in touch with God.

This is a beautiful picture of our Lord Jesus Christ – the one who is our mediator – who in all his beauty and splendour became the go-between between heaven and earth — and still fulfills that role. And calls us as his people – his church on earth [ together and individually] – to be ‘Abigails’, reflecting the beauty of the Lord to those who are making fool of themselves by living life without reference to God.

That is the lesson that Abigail teaches us.

There is another lesson that we can learn from David.

David responds to Abigail’s pleading!!

What a teachable spirit David has! Hears is David with his sword ready to kill YET he stops and listens to this woman without interrupting – and he changes! A man after God’s heart. He was willing to change! He was willing to admit he was wrong and change!

Sometimes we become angry and bitter and blind and we stubbornly refuse to change because we believe that we are right.

David was right that he had been wronged BUT he was wrong to be a revenger!

BUT David had the grace and a God-sensitive heart to stop and turn around when someone godly and wise gave him a ‘word in season’.

That is what we need to be like flexible and teachable. Because if we are not flexible and teachable we will end up being like Nabal – harsh and mean and foolish. David set out to deal with Nabal but that isn’t spirituality in that … all that would have done would be to reduce David to Nabal’s level.

When we are hurt / insulted / wronged in some way whether real or imaginary it is so easy to become wrapped up in ourselves and to want to attack to defend our egos or to erect a protective wall  — BUT in so doing we can become so wrapped up in ourselves that we can entirely forget about God.

God doesn’t want us to be wrapped up in ourselves — he wants us to be wrapped up in Him … listen to what Abigail says in 1 Samuel 25:29 29 Even though someone is pursuing you to take your life, the life of my master will be bound securely in the bundle of the living by the LORD your God. But the lives of your enemies he will hurl away as from the pocket of a sling. (NIV)

bound securely in the bundle of the living by the LORD your God – What a wonderful promise!

Colossians 3:2-3 2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 3 For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. (NIV)

Learn to think like God and not like Nabal. As a Christian your life is wrapped up in Christ. Get God’s perspective on things – don’t fall into the trap of evaluating live from the perspective of ‘one who lives life with no reference to God and his word.

God honoured David and shortly afterwards Nabal died and David courted and married Abigail. If vengeance is required God will see to it in his time.

For our part we need to be teachable like David and wise and beautiful like Abigail.

MEN BEHAVING BADLY …

           … A WOMAN SAVES THE DAY!!

MISTREATMENT AND RETALIATION!

1 Samuel 24:1-22.

INTRODUCTION.

Something that every person has to deal with in life is conflict with other people / or opposition from other people  / or being the victim of someone else’s aggression.

It starts from an early age –

ILLUS.: – you only have to come to the toddlers group on a Tuesday morning to see that even at that age there is aggression and conflict – over a toy or who goes down the slide first.

When as an adult you see one child striking out at another and you intervene and try to resolve the situation and find out what caused the problem … “What is a very common response from one or both?”  — “She started it!!”

The implication being – though the child would not articulate it is this way – “Because So-and-so hurt me in some way I therefore have the right to retaliate!”

If you hurt me I am going to hurt you back – very often with interest!

We see it in homes – children/ teenager are hurt by their parent – intentionally or not – the child feels aggrieved – is cheeky/ misbehaves etc…  {Parents are not always responsible for a child’s misbehaviour!! – often comes naturally with no provocation!}

At school you may have been told off by a teacher or put down in front of the class and you carry a grudge against that teacher / bad-mouth him at every opportunity / you might even like to damage his car if you could do it and not get caught!!

Because you feel hurt by that teacher you feel you have the right to retaliate!

At work a colleague may stab you in the back – Do you respond in like manner with the reasoning “I am only doing to her what she did to me!”

May be you trusted a friend with some intimate details of your life and he spreads it around. “Are you justified in responding in kind?”

Even in the Church family you get hurt because of what someone says or does. Do we file it away for future revenge.

We may pride ourselves that WE would not do anything by way of retaliation BUT if something bad happens to that person or they are hurt by another we are secretly delighted – they deserve what they  got because of what they did to me.

We ease our consciences by saying “Well, he got what was coming to him – he deserved it!”

David —

I do not know anyone personally who has been the target of a murderous plot. Someone who is on a hit list without the benefit of a democratic trial by jury.

David was in such a position… as we have seen over the past weeks. King Saul was out to get him — David was being victimized — Is there justification for righteous retaliation?

1. THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTED.

1.1. The situation.

Saul is relentless in his pursuit of David … not only Saul but his whole army with him… 1 Samuel 23:14

14 David stayed in the desert strongholds and in the hills of the Desert of Ziph. Day after day Saul searched for him, but God did not give David into his hands. …………………

1 Samuel 24:2 2 So Saul took three thousand chosen men from all Israel and set out to look for David and his men near the Crags of the Wild Goats. (NIV)

David and his men are fugitives hiding in the Wilderness of En-Gedi .. last week we saw how rugged the country is … so while is was a harsh place to live it was also a good place to hide because it was full of crags and cliffs and caves.

1.2. The Opportunity.

1 Samuel 24:3-4

3 He [SAUL] came to the sheep pens along the way; a cave was there, and Saul went in to relieve himself. David and his men were far back in the cave. 4 The men said, “This is the day the LORD spoke of when he said to you, ‘I will give your enemy into your hands for you to deal with as you wish.’ ”

The Bible is a very down to earth book – Saul is chasing David and as nature would have it Saul needs to go to the loo. Well what better place than a cave when you are in the country – it is sheltered and private.

Well Saul thought it was private … little did he know that David and his men were hiding in the very cave he chose. Talk about being vulnerable.

It is bad enough the king being seen at that delicate moment but in the very presence of the enemy … what an opportunity for David. … If he killed Saul not only would he be able to stop running BUT he would also become King in the place of Saul … What a temptation for David! What a test!!

David’s men are convinced that this is a God-given opportunity … by human logic it seemed so obvious didn’t it.

An opportunity presents itself for retaliation should David not take it.

You are in the office and the one who stabbed you in the back is being criticise it is so easy to just turn the knife … add your voice to the character assassination.

Or be economical with the truth to show that person in a bad light.

David and his men have been trained to fight and here is there enemy at his most vulnerable moment . “Go for it David! This is it!”

1.3. The Action.

Picture the scene … David creeps up behind Saul, dagger in hand ready to plunge it into Saul’s back. You can almost heard the men’s silence applause!

And what does David do … he becomes a tailor for a moment and redesigns the kings robe!

1.4. The Reaction.

… from the men.

We are not told what the reaction of David’s men is but we can guess.

“David you are a fool, you had him at your mercy and you let him slip away! David he was trying to kill you, you have every right to protect yourself!”

… from David.

David’s reaction is quite different. He doesn’t chastise himself for missing an opportunity … BUT rather his conscience bothers him for what he did.

His men are baffled … and David has to persuade them with strong words of rebuke!

1 Samuel 24:5-7

5 Afterwards, David was conscience-stricken for having cut off a corner of his robe. 6 He said to his men, “The LORD forbid that I should do such a thing to my master, the LORD’s anointed, or lift my hand against him; for he is the anointed of the LORD.” 7 With these words David rebuked his men and did not allow them to attack Saul. And Saul left the cave and went his way. (NIV)

David had learned many lessons in the wilderness … during that time he had been in close contact with God … he was learning to think the way God wanted him to think … he had learnt that God was his refuge / his protection / and he didn’t need to play God … in fact he had learned that it is wrong to play God. Thus to raise his hand against the one God anointed, even if he was being victimised, was not his right … God would deal with Saul in his own time.

It is so easy to justify retaliation / revenge / getting even … we can rationalize when we yield to temptation. “I didn’t kill anyone, it was just a snip!”

“I didn’t have a stand up argument, it was just a little dig!” / and unkind remark /a hurtful retort /…. it is so easy to justify! He does it to me doesn’t he?

BUT those small things are small steps along the path of retaliation and revenge. And even a small step in that direction is a wrong step.

Our society /or our friends might consider steps along that path perfectly justifiable /even commendable – as David’s men no doubt did – but ultimately we have to deal with God and he wants us to have a tender conscience.

You see if we really want to walk with God we have to deal with the little things / the details as well as the big things.

Even for a snippet of the king’s robe David says “That wasn’t right!” It bothered him.

David learned a principle which he teaches his men.

Had Saul been in the wrong? YES! no question.

Was it David’s job to make it right? NO! that was God’s job.

2. THE ATTITUDE PORTRAYED.

… THE ATTITUDE TOWARDS HIS ENEMY….

1 Samuel 24:8-9

8 Then David went out of the cave and called out to Saul, “My lord the king!” When Saul looked behind him, David bowed down and prostrated himself with his face to the ground. 9 He said to Saul, “Why do you listen when men say, ‘David is bent on harming you’? (NIV)

… and he goes on to tell Saul that he is wrong in his assessment of David.

2.1. Humility.

NB first that David doesn’t rub Saul’s nose in it. He treats Saul with the respect that is due to a king.

ILLUS.: When I was in the army we were taught that we were to respect a persons rank. You saluted an officer irrespective of whether or not you like him. You had to respect the rank conferred on him by the Military Authority.

That is what David is doing here – he knows that Saul was anointed king by God and so out of respect for God and his chosen king he treats Saul with the dignity deserving of kings.

He shows his humility by treating Saul with respect … BUT also by not parading his own righteousness.

He presents the truth … he does not polish his own ego.

It is so easy when you know you are in the right to become very self-righteous and patronising to the one you wronged you.

2.2. Honesty.

David does something very important here – wrong is being done against him and it is necessary for him to declare the truth.

We have a tendency very often to leave things alone. “Oh, just leave it, it will all work out!”   If it is a trivial matter and what we are defending is our own pride and ego then, yes, it is better left alone!   If, however, it is an important principle then we need to declare the truth.

David – “King Saul, people are telling lies about me and you are listening to false counsel. — here is the proof, I could have killed you but I didn’t!”

He now reiterates the principle he had explained to his men. “God is judge and we have no right to usurp his role!” … 1 Samuel 24:15 15 May the LORD be our judge and decide between us. May he consider my cause and uphold it; may he vindicate me by delivering me from your hand.” (NIV)

Our judgement is not always true – it is much safer to leave matters in God’s hands.

2.3. Reality.

Saul’s response is one of remorse … 1 Samuel 24:16-17

16 When David finished saying this, Saul asked, “Is that your voice, David my son?” And he wept aloud. 17 “You are more righteous than I,” he said. “You have treated me well, but I have treated you badly. (NIV)

… he goes on to acknowledge that David will one day be king.

Then he goes away and leaves David alone. BUT what does David do… “Does he rush back to the palace?”  NO! 1 Samuel 24:22

22 … Then Saul returned home, but David and his men went up to the stronghold. (NIV)

David is not naive, he knows Saul too well, and he was right as before long he was again hunting David.

Saul is a sorrowful character … he appears he to have repented, he is sorry for hunting David BUT it doesn’t last. He was sorry for the moment but there is no follow through. He is not truly repentant BUT rather feeling rather foolish for being show up by a better man than he.

It is easy to become emotional and feel sorry for ourselves rather than sorry for our sin before God. What is the benefit of having our hearts stirred, of being emotionally upset  if it doesn’t lead to a heart for God. Appropriate emotion is good and right – and maybe we need more of it – but if it stops there and doesn’t lead to action then is may only serve to lead us deeper into sin and rebellion.

How many have come face to face with the love of God and their hearts are stirred and yet they have silenced that holy emotion and gone out to live in disobedience to God’s principles.

Saul came so close to true repentance at the impact of David’s love BUT it did not last, sadly!

David’s non-retaliatory response to Saul’s aggression did produce a favourable response in Saul, at least for a time … a good example of the proverb … “When a man’s ways please the Lord, he makes even his enemies be at peace with him”

The reality of life is that the “enemy” – whoever you happen to be at odds with – will not always see the error of his ways. You may not get a quick acknowledgment that you are right and that he/she is sorry. What you might well get is another load of abuse and aggression!

As Christians we are to act in a kind, loving truthful way … but we are not to be naive and gullible … rather  “… as wise as serpents and as gentle as doves…”

But we are responsible for declaring the truth — we are not responsible for the reaction it produces — let me remind you though that we need to do it in a humble and honest way — not rubbing the other person’s nose in it NOR rubbing our own pride!

3. THE APPLICATION FOR THE PRESENT.

What can we learn from this incident in David’s life.

3.1. People aren’t perfect so expect to be wronged.

The same nature that was in King Saul is in every person, including you and me.

If we are guilty of treating others badly we need to come to terms with it, acknowledge and call it what God calls it — Sin… and then repent!

3.2. Being wronged is inevitable so expect feelings of revenge.

I am not saying retaliate … but we will feel like retaliating and getting even. These feeling will surely come.

Handle mistreatment is not easy and doing it God’s way does not come naturally.

That is why what Jesus taught was so revolutionary .. Luke 6:31 31 Do to others as you would have them do to you. (NIV) -.. .. “NOT as they DO to you!!”

It is very rare for a person not to retaliate, or at least not want to.

3.3. Feelings of revenge are predictable so accept God’s help.

David’s men wanted David to kill Saul and he almost did .. but he stopped and he put right even the small thing he did do.

Are you resentful because of the way someone has treated you … holding a grudge … hoping for an opportunity to get back.

It stirs you up,…. maybe you can sleep at night thinking about it … the desire for revenge is a very subtle temptation because we find it easy to justify and even our friends and society may commend us for ‘standing up for ourselves’.

So what about that friend who has broken your confidence … that teacher who told you off … that boss who treated you unfairly … that colleague who stabbed you in the back … or even you spouse who has let you down?

You can allow feeling of resentment, anger and bitterness to eat you up inside … or you can learn to forgive! Ask for God’s help to forgive through Jesus Christ.

We need to ask forgiveness for ourselves for allowing roots of bitterness and resentment to have built up in our hearts.

Yes we may have been wronged — even very badly hurt – and it is not right what the other person did — they are wrong … and we maybe feel justified in retaliating … BUT God calls it something else …

Romans 12:18-21 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. ………       21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (NIV)

How often are we to take revenge? “Never”, says God, … Not sometimes! Not even occasionally!

We are not talking about standing up for what is right in public — or defending a just cause.

What we are talking about is personal offense .. when harm is done to us and we don’t like it and we want to get even … and we fan the flames by refusing to forgive.

ILLUS.: Years ago Janet and I resigned from an organisation we had worked with for some time – we had little choice at the time – as things were said about us that were not truth – a letter was then circulated giving false reasons  as to why we left. To try and counter the accusations would have meant dragging others into the situation and would have brought God’s name into disrepute amongst some who were not Christians. It was extremely difficult not to retaliate and defend ourselves BUT we felt it was right. Years later we have been amazed how God has brought out the truth in other ways and we have been vindicated – not with everyone involved but with many.

19 Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath – God has a way of being the truth to light — and if not in this life certainly at the judgement – let’s leave it to him.

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone – you can’t change the other person BUT you can handle your part, to forgive, with God’s help.

If anyone ever had a right to retaliate and to defend his rights it was Jesus … Falsely accused … convicted and put to death on trumpt up charges yet responded .. “Father, forgive them …”  Let’s learn from David and from Jesus that forgiveness is better than revenge. It may help the one who committed the wrong to realise their error and put it right BUT even if not it is to our benefit and to God’s glory when we leave vengeance to him.

‘DAVID IN THE DESERT’

1 Samuel 23:1 -29 (Psalm 142 and 57)

INTRODUCTION.

ILLUS.: 1984 I went to luncheon with a friend – BU {Baptist Union} Assembly in RSA {South Africa} – I went reluctantly – a promational lunch from by a Tour company promoting tours to Israel. At the end there was a ticket draw and guess who won! The following year I went to Israel for a week, all expenses paid.

During that week we went to En-Gedi, an oasis alongside the Dead Sea – I swam (floated) in the Dead Sea.

West of the Dead Sea are very steep cliffs and crags and precipices – they are barren and dry and dusty – it is a vast expanse of wilderness with many caves and canyons. It is one of the harshest and most inhospitable places on earth.

It is sorching during the day – the heat is so oppressive that it feel like you are under a magnifying glass in the noon day sun. At night, esp. during the winter, it is bitterly cold.

1. THE PLACE HE WAS IN.

In the wilderness of En-Gedi is where David spent many years eking out an existence while he was on the run from the murderous king Saul.

ILLUS.: Ever watched a Western movie and seen the parched, austere Badlands?

En-Gedi is like that!!

Wilderness is harsh and wild and yet there is something strangely attractive about the wild –

Jack London’s famous book is entitled The Call Of The Wild – and there a call – there is something that draws us.

There is something wonderful and well as frightening about the wild. There are sights and sounds and smells — there is silence sometimes, and solitude.

The majestic mountains, the deep ravines, the rolling plains, the torrents of whitewater or the parched riverbed …

There are certain things you can only know when you have climbed a mountain or walked a trail.

David didn’t start off in the wilderness nor did he end up there BUT he spent some very important years there. It seems that those, like David, who have a heart for God, spend some time in the wilderness.

David didn’t choose to go into the desert – he didn’t go on a safari – or a nature trail to photograph lizards and hyenas or exotic wild flowers. His name was David the shepherd of Bethlehem — NOT David Attenborough of the BBC.

He went there are a fugitive – running for his life from the maniac who wanted to kill him, King Saul.

In the wilderness David found peace and beauty.

The wilderness can be a place of beauty and of danger. A majestic mountain can become dangerously deadly when the mist descends and the cold front arrives; a magnificent animal in a camera lense can suddenly become a deadly killer; a picturesque mountain stream can become an icy killer [or grave] if your foot slips…

We are removed from the physical wilderness as we surround ourselves with all the mod cons — towns and cities, roads and streetlights, central heating and superstores, NHS and life insurance…

BUT there are times and circumstances in life that no matter how modern or sophisticated we have become we are plunged into a wilderness.

We can be going along fine – life is good to us and suddenly – suddenly we are no longer in control – something goes wrong – Our physical health, our emotional wellbeing, our jobs, our friends, our family …

All of a sudden we are in a terribly frightening and dangerous desert – we are seeing and hearing and experiencing things that are new and scary – a normal response!! BUT if at the same time we will be alert to the dealing of God in our life – there can be great beauty in the desert as we learn something of the  mystery of God and the wonder of life.

The PLACE David was in — starting the cave of Adullum … the desert of Ziph … the wilderness of En-Gedi.

2. THE PEOPLE HE WAS WITH

When David first ran – he was alone – first to the Priests at Nob and then to Gath, the Philistine town and then to the cave of Adullum …

In a strange place away from all that is familiar – alone except for God … it is during this time that he writes …

Psalm 142:1-7

1 [A maskil of David. When he was in the cave. A prayer.]

I cry aloud to the LORD; I lift up my voice to the LORD for mercy.

2 I pour out my complaint before him; before him I tell my trouble.

3 When my spirit grows faint within me, it is you who know my way.

In the path where I walk men have hidden a snare for me.

4 Look to my right and see; no-one is concerned for me.

I have no refuge; no-one cares for my life.

5 I cry to you, O Lord; I say, “You are my refuge, my portion in the land of the living.”

6 Listen to my cry, for I am in desperate need;

rescue me from those who pursue me, for they are too strong for me.

7 Set me free from my prison, that I may praise your name.

Then the righteous will gather about me because of your goodness to me. (NIV)

Does David express how you have felt at times ~~ (he does for me) ~~ it that how you feel now?? ~~ If you are a child of God there will be times when he takes you through the wildernesses of life.

Remember that those he loves he disciplines and puts to the test ~~ an easy, comfortable, problem-free life is not necessarily a sign of God blessing.

God was preparing David for kingship and he was putting him through a vigorous training programme ~~

God has removed all the props from David’s life ~~ in that aloneness, in that dark cave, in the despair, there is no escape and no one to turn to BUT God!!

The people that David encounters in these chapters are not those who come to help him BUT those who come to him for help … his family, who had always treated him well – remember how he wasn’t even invited to the party when Samuel came to visit; and how his brothers ridiculed and criticized him when he arrived in the army camp –  …

then look at the rabble that God sends him to be the raw material that he has to work with to build an army …

1 Samuel 22:2 2 All those who were in distress or in debt or discontented gathered round him, and he became their leader. About four hundred men were with him. (NIV)

Saul had mistreated and abused the country and those disaffected came running to David — he was a kind of Robin Hood of the time ..

God was beginning the process of rebuilding David’s life … this rabble, initially about 400,  this motley crew were to become David’s mighty men of valour, his right hand men, the officers in his government when he became King.

This number soon became 600 … and then continued until the whole nation was behind him.

Later another would come … led into the same wilderness … put to the test … he would draw around himself a motley bunch of people who in time, in dependence on God would turn the world upside down … and his holy nation, the church is still growing, and will continue until he is crown King of Kings and Lord of lords.

God had a plan for David … to use him for his glory. He has a plan for you and for me; it won’t always be pleasant – it will sometimes go through the wilderness BUT the wilderness is there to teach us and mould us in a way that nothing else can.

3. THE PRESSURE HE WAS UNDER.

Besides the harshness of living in the wilderness David had other pressures to cope with …

1) He was surrounded by fearful followers.

Fear had caused David to panic and run and in the process make some major blunders. Now he has 400 men who are afraid .. can he teach them from the lessons he has learned.

The Philistines are attacking Keilah .. David consults the Lord, something he had failed to do at Nob and Gath … God says go and help …BUT

1 Samuel 23:3   3 But David’s men said to him, “Here in Judah we are afraid. How much more, then, if we go to Keilah against the Philistine forces!” (NIV)

David is learning to check it out with God … David and his men go to help Keilah and routed the Philistines.

Brought courage to the hearts of his men and rescue to the citizens of Keilah.

You would think they would be eternally grateful but not so …

2) He was rejected by those he had helped.

When Saul discovers that David is in Keilah he sets off to capture him …

David consults the Lord … 1 Samuel 23:12

12 Again David asked, “Will the citizens of Keilah surrender me and my men to Saul?”

And the LORD said, “They will.” (NIV)

He had put his life and the life of his men at risk … now he is kicked in the teeth … ingratitude is hard to swallow … our natural reaction is retaliation.

There is no hint of that here … David walks away … he hadn’t rescued them for their praise BUT because God had told him to … he was simply being obedient to God’s word.

When our motives for doing good to others is to gain their praise and approval we will be disappointed … God calls us to obey .. to do good to others because it is right and what he desire of us!!

3) He is betrayed by strangers.

David and his men flee to the Desert of Ziph. BUT some of the men from that area, for unknown reason [possibly to gain favour with the king], betray his position to Saul.

He had fear in the ranks, ingratitude from those he’d helped and now treachery from strangers.

4) He is pursued by his enemy.

David has to constantly watch his back. He knows that Saul will be after him at every oppotunity. Saul army way out numbers David’s rabble force and as they close in and it looks like all is lost God arranges a diversion…

1 Samuel 23:26-28

26 Saul was going along one side of the mountain, and David and his men were on the other side, hurrying to get away from Saul. As Saul and his forces were closing in on David and his men to capture them, 27 a messenger came to Saul, saying, “Come quickly! The Philistines are raiding the land.” 28 Then Saul broke off his pursuit of David and went to meet the Philistines.

Many years later the apostle Paul would write words David would readily understand …

1 Corinthians 10:13 13. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted [tested] beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted [tested], he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it. (NIV)

When the pressure was to great God stepped in.

Have you ever been in a situation where you are at your wits end and you can’t go on and then God steps in … often in the form other people to help.

ILLUS. maybe under pressure at work — it becomes unbearable and at breaking point your vindictive boss resigns or you are offered a different post.

Sometimes after a period of spiritual struggle when you are ready to give up God draws near in a very special way that you find difficult to discribe but is nevertheless very real and uplifting.

*5) He is encouraged by a friend.

1 Samuel 23:15-18         15 While David was at Horesh in the Desert of Ziph, he learned that Saul had come out to take his life. 16 And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him to find strength in God. 17 “Don’t be afraid,” he said. “My father Saul will not lay a hand on you. You shall be king over Israel, and I will be second to you. Even my father Saul knows this.” 18 The two of them made a covenant before the LORD. Then Jonathan went home, but David remained at Horesh. (NIV)

When we are in the wilderness – the love and encouragement of a friend can be infinitely precious.

ILLUS.: When we first came to England – life was hard for us in many ways – we had no family here – our finaces were very tight – my work was very insecure. We were at a very low time.

A friend who was travelling through Europe en route to USA took a special detour at his own expense to come and spent three days with us – he had no hidden agenda – he wasn’t using us as a B&B – he came for us.

I can’t tell you what that meant to Janet and me! He did for us what Jonathan did for David … helped him to find strength in God.

Do you know of a friend in the wilderness right now … go to them … you don’t have to preach a sermon .. or have all the answers … just let them know that you care … a visit – a card – a phone call – a hug – — it does wonders at any time but especially when  you are in the wilderness!!

4. THE PRINCIPLES HE WAS LEARNING.

Going through a wilderness experience doesn’t necessarily cause us to grow and learn the lessons God is trying to teach us. It is possible to encounter hard time and to regress.

It is possible to become so full of bitterness and self-pity and anger that we only ever look inward and never upward ~~ I am not saying that we will never be angry or bitter or sorrow for ourselves these are natural reactions to difficulties ~~ BUT when we wallow in self-pity and harbour a bitter and angry spirit on and on and on … Then we will not learn what God has for us.

Instead of being like David who looked up and cried out to God for deliverance we will become like Saul, bitter and twisted, bent on a course of self-destruction — and we harm not only ourselves but those aroung us!!

We can be in the wilderness and be so absorbed with the harshness that we miss the beauty …

ILLUS.: A friend took some American young people to the Kruger National Park in RSA – all the seemed concerned about was when they would get lunch/ supper and breakfast – The opportunity to sit at a watering hole and watch the African sunrise and the animals coming to drink – but some were so self-absorbed they didn’t even get out of the minibus and go into the hide – what an opportunity missed.

If God  is taking you through the wilderness of life don’t miss the beauty of what he is trying to teach you through it.

David learned from God because he was prepared to admit his need and cry for help.

I am sure that there were many lessons that David learned in those years in the desert BUT one, I believe stands out.

Over and over again in the Psalms we come across this word – REFUGE – a place to run to in time of stress / danger / temptation ~~ as we read about this in the writings of David we can’t help but see the word as conveying a good experience, BUT what drove David to refuge was a bad experience.

He started out running for his life and found the life he was running for = God. “God is our refuge”

The prayer that David prayed in the wilderness is recorded in

Psalm 57:1-11

1 [For the director of music. [To the tune of] “Do Not Destroy”. Of David. A miktam. When he had fled from Saul into the cave.]

 Have mercy on me, O God, have mercy on me, for in you my soul takes refuge.

            I will take refuge in the shadow of your wings until the disaster has passed.

            2 I cry out to God Most High, to God, who fulfils [his purpose] for me.

            3 He sends from heaven and saves me, rebuking those who hotly pursue me; Selah

                        God sends his love and his faithfulness.

4 I am in the midst of lions; I lie among ravenous beasts —

            men whose teeth are spears and arrows, whose tongues are sharp swords.

5 Be exalted, O God, above the heavens; let your glory be over all the earth.

6 They spread a net for my feet — I was bowed down in distress.

They dug a pit in my path — but they have fallen into it themselves. Selah

7 My heart is steadfast, O God, my heart is steadfast; I will sing and make music.

8 Awake, my soul! Awake, harp and lyre! I will awaken the dawn.

9 I will praise you, O Lord, among the nations; I will sing of you among the peoples.

10 For great is your love, reaching to the heavens; your faithfulness reaches to the skies.

11 Be exalted, O God, above the heavens; let your glory be over all the earth. (NIV)

Going through a wilderness doesn’t automatically make us like David.

Saul was in the wilderness too, running after David, obsessed with hunting him down, full of murderous intent.

Meanwhile David is running to God, finding his refuge in God, alert to the wonders of his wilderness.

Peterson “We can’t be naive about the wilderness; it’s a dangerous place. But we must never avoid the wilderness; it’s a wonderful place”

DAVID: LYING FOR HIS LIFE!

1 Samuel 21:1 – 22:23.

Introduction.

ILLUS.:  I am sure that there is no one here today who hasn’t lied in order to get out of trouble or to save your skin or to save face!

> a child caught out, then lying to escape punishment.

> as a teenager lying about where you are going or who you were with because if you tell the truth you know your parents will not allow you to do what you want to do.

> as an adult maybe you have lied to get a job / or protect your job / or to protect your reputation.

> Lied to avoid speaking to someone on the phone, “My dad says to tell you that he is not here..!”

David was in a situation where he felt forced to lie in order to save his life. Is this the right thing to do in those circumstances? Should David have behaved differently?  Was it necessary for him to behave as he did? What were the consequences of his lying? What was his response when he looked back over this  period of his life?

I am so glad that the Bible is honest about its characters – it tells us about them with all their struggles and failures and weaknesses as well as the triumphs.

The story of David is not set before us as a moral model to copy – he is not someone who had arrived spiritually, who had it all together, or who is a perfect example we are to follow. NO, David is a person who does things badly at times, often worse than we do, BUT in the process he doesn’t give up, he doesn’t withdraw from God.

David’s life is not an ideal life but and actual / real life. Hopefully David’s life helps us to cultivate an honest life before God; a life with a sense of reality that is aware of God and responsive to God.

David is not a super-spiritual saint living in a cocoon – he doesn’t spend his life living next to a stream with lush green banks and  playing his harp!! He had those moments in his life but they were few. David has to live in a hostile world that is unfriendly and threatening – in the tough, real world he must workout his relationship to God and other people.

This incident in his life is part of his learning / growing / training for his job as king. God will use our failures and our successes to make us what he wants us to be IF we are people with a heart for God – like David was a ‘man after God’s own heart’.

In the period of his life David begins a life on the run from King Saul – he knows that King Saul’s intent is to murder him. At the beginning Saul had black moods that past but now there was a price on David’s head.

His life is in danger – he runs – he doesn’t pack, he doesn’t plan – he simply runs!

On 3 occasions during this time he tells or lives lies!!

1. THE REASONS FOR HIS LYING.

We saw last time how on 6 occasions Saul tries to kill David himself or have David killed.

He is unsafe at the palace with the king’s son, he is unsafe at home with the king’s daughter (Michal, his wife), even unsafe with the prophet Samuel at Ramah (ch.19).

In spite of his friend Jonathan’s assurances David feared for his life and out of that fear sprang his first lie! (back in ch.20).

In order to discover his standing at the palace David pushes his friend, Jonathan, into a compromising position. He fabricates a story about his absence from the New Moon festival …

1 Samuel 20:5-7

5 So David said, “Look, tomorrow is the New Moon festival, and I am supposed to dine with the king; but let me go and hide in the field until the evening of the day after tomorrow. 6 If your father misses me at all, tell him, ‘David earnestly asked my permission to hurry to Bethlehem, his home town, because an annual sacrifice is being made there for his whole clan.’ 7 If he says, ‘Very well,’ then your servant is safe. But if he loses his temper, you can be sure that he is determined to harm me. (NIV)

Jonathan goes along with this lie but it drove a deep wedge between him and his father. It was a risky thing to do and it stretched the bonds of the friendship between David and Jonathan.

What drove David to lie? FEAR …

1 Samuel 20:3   3 But David…. said, “…….. there is only a step between me and death.” (NIV)

Before we criticize David we need to admit that we would surely have done the same! When things / people turn against us and the ship of our lives threatens to capsize we too, can lose perspective and flee in fear! The circumstances of life become far more real to us than the presence of God!

Maybe this is where David is at – instead of looking up at God he looks around at his situation and his heart fills with fear and he lies (through Jonathan) to Saul and then runs!!

What caused David to panic? Had his close fellowship with God grown cold? As he had moved up in the world had he begun to rely more on his reputation as a warrior than on God?

It is so easy to try and rely on our own resources. Or on past experiences.

The question is, “How up to date is our relationship with Jesus?”  When God thrusts us into the uncertainties and problems of life is our faith overcome with fear and shrivels up? When God looks at our hearts does he see hearts that rely on him or on their own inadequate resources?

Earlier, David’s perspective had been different – when he faced Goliath he was confident because he had God’s perspective on things ~~ now Saul seemed and invincible menace, he seemed like a giant to David. He panicked and he ran for his life!!

After a few days (probably) on the run David comes to Nob, where there is a colony of priests and their families ~ their task is to care for the tabernacle ~ Ahimelech is the senior priest.

David is hungry and defenseless and he wants food and weaponry!

Ahimelech is suspicious! Why is David alone? Where are his men?  Something is wrong! He must have known, as all Israel must have known, that Saul was out to get David.

As Ahimelech questions David fear grips his heart and truth is the casualty…

1 Samuel 21:2-3

2 David answered Ahimelech the priest, “The king charged me with a certain matter and said to me, ‘No-one is to know anything about your mission and your instructions.’ As for my men, I have told them to meet me at a certain place. 3 Now then, what have you to hand? Give me five loaves of bread, or whatever you can find.” (NIV)

David lies ~ there are no men and there is no secret mission!

The only bread available is the stale / old ‘shewbread’ – this is the bread place placed before the Lord in the Tabernacle as a reminder to the people of God’s provision ~ Fresh bread was placed there every week and this bread David asks for is the old bread.

This was allowed to be eaten by the priest alone! Strictly speaking it was illegal for David or his fictitious men to eat this bread.

BUT Jesus used this very story to make a point about the Law of Moses – the Jewish laws.  These were divided into levels of importance and the basic point that Jesus made was this: Laws about compassion and human need are more important than laws about ritual and ceremony. (Mark 2:25-26)

Ahimelech asks about the ceremonial purity of David’s men ~ if they are going to eat the holy bread ~ David lies again and swears blind that they are ritually pure.

He gets the bread.

NOW he need a weapon…

1 Samuel 21:8-9            8 David asked Ahimelech, “Don’t you have a spear or sword here? I haven’t brought my sword or any other weapon, because the king’s business was urgent.”

9 The priest replied, “The sword of Goliath the Philistine, whom you killed in the Valley of Elah, is here; it is wrapped in a cloth behind the ephod. If you want it, take it; there is no sword here but that one.” David said, “There is none like it; give it to me.” (NIV)

The last mention of this sword was when David killed the giant – presumably he had presented it to God as a thank offering ~ as sign that the Lord does not need swords or spears to save his people (17:47)

David is in panic-mode. It is strange that he wants Goliath’s sword ~ it hadn’t done Goliath any good.

David himself was the one who said ..

1 Samuel 17:45

45 David said to the Philistine, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the Lord Almighty….

Now he is distressed and panicking and in effect he is saying to King Saul “I am not coming to you in the name of the Lord; I am coming to you with a sword …”

Was there a time in your life when like David you trusted God implicitly ~ in the name of the Lord ~ but now you are on a long drift from God and you are trusting in you equivalent of Goliath’s sword?

In Desperation David goes to Gath, a Philistine town, recklessly fleeing into an enemy city ~ he seeks refuge with King Achish. BUT he is recognised and his life is endangered. He lies again ~ pretending / living a lie ~ he feigns insanity, scratches at the Palace door and dribbles down his beard. The kings response is that he has enough madmen and David is thrown out and escapes.

So here is David no longer the shepherd and warrior relying on God BUT fearful and fleeing for his life – fabricating lies and feigning madness. No longer trusting God to save him – his only thought on saving his own skin!!

NB – no mention in this chapter of David consulting God or the phrase so often in previous chapters “and the Lord was with David”

Before we judged David let’s examine our own hearts ~ “How do you and I respond to the harsh realities of life?”

2. THE RESULTS OF DAVID’S LYING.

David returns to Judah on the instruction of Gad, the prophet. [22:1-5]

We can look at these incidents in David’s life and say “Well it maybe wasn’t the best thing to do but he got away with it, didn’t he?”

Oh no he didn’t!!

The incident with Jonathan put Jonathan’s life at risk ~ Saul tried to kill his own son.

The incident in Gath – nearly cost David his life and it dishonoured the name of the God of Israel before the enemy.

We might consider these consequences minor ~ but went a pattern of lying and deceit develops there is inevitably a price to pay. In this case others paid the price for David’s lies!!

At Nob, when David lied to Ahimelech, Doeg, one of Saul’s servants was listening ~ he was an opportunist and at the right moment he told Saul what had transpired that day as a result Saul ordered the priests and their families and all their possessions to be destroyed and Doeg was the man who did the dreadful deed…..

1 Samuel 22:18-19

18 The king then ordered Doeg, “You turn and strike down the priests.” So Doeg the Edomite turned and struck them down. That day he killed eighty-five men who wore the linen ephod. 19 He also put to the sword Nob, the town of the priests, with its men and women, its children and infants, and its cattle, donkeys and sheep.

David’s sin led to tragedy ~ sin always does! Sin is expensive!

Let’s look at our lives ~ are we fabricating / lying / pretending to each other/ourselves/God. Is your spirit gone sour / cold / indifferent? God is asking you, “What is wrong?” He knows what is wrong but he wants you to admit it. Have you become fearful of trusting God and his resources! You doubt his word and his promises ~ you have grown spiritually stale and are on a long drift from God. BUT instead of admitting it and you are covering it over and pretending that all is well. “Why doesn’t the preacher worry about those who really need help and stop meddling in my life!”

When we depart from a living faith and a living obedience the consequences can be tragic not only for us personally but also for other people.

The massacre of 85 priests and their families was a hard lesson for David to learn.

3. THE REMORSE FOR HIS LYING.

Not everybody was killed that fatally day of the massacre ~ One of Ahimelech’s sons, Abiathar, escaped and came to David …

1 Samuel 22:20-22

20 But Abiathar, son of Ahimelech son of Ahitub, escaped and fled to join David. 21 He told David that Saul had killed the priests of the LORD. 22 Then David said to Abiathar: “That day, when Doeg the Edomite was there, I knew he would be sure to tell Saul. I am responsible for the death of your father’s whole family. (NIV)

When David hears what happened – he realises that his is indirectly responsible this tragedy.

Immediately, without hesitation, without qualification, he admits his guilt.

The way he tells it – that the day he lied to Ahimelech he knew Doeg was there and he knew how unscrupulous that man was – even then there was a struggle in his conscience ~ but he was panic-stricken.

Doeg used the sword but David takes his share of the responsibility …

Some verses from Ps. 34 look like a lesson he may have learned from this incident………

Psalm 34:11-14

11 Come, my children, listen to me;

I will teach you the fear of the LORD.

12 Whoever of you loves life

and desires to see many good days,

13 keep your tongue from evil

and your lips from speaking lies.

14 Turn from evil and do good;

seek peace and pursue it. (NIV)

David felt deep remorse for what he had done at Nob. If he hadn’t been going through a bad phase of panic and unbelief, the people of Nob would still be alive.

But as we will see, whatever failures he had been through and however bad he felt, he persisted in faith.

WHAT LESSONS CAN WE LEARN?

What did David learn?

• It would produce sympathy in David. ~ It is easy to criticise others when one’s life has been cushy and easy. David would never be able to forget that his patience and endurance had been tested to the limited. And he had be found wanting!!

• It would teach David about grace. ~ grace is receiving what we do not deserve or merit ~ David would never forget that when he was full of sin and impatience, when he was lying to Ahimelech and disgracing himself before the enemies of God, that God did not abandon him.             We have all done things that if God had entirely written us off he would have been perfectly justified, and we could have no complaint!       David would be more tender with people, after he himself had been so tenderly dealt with by God.                                                                 Maybe you have lied in the past ~ verbally or by pretense ~ or maybe you are living a lie now ~ afraid of being caught out / afraid of admitting your guilt like David did because you fear rejection and abandonment. God is gracious and tender and forgiving. He longs for us to experience his grace ~ to deal with our sinfulness ~ because Jesus died to save us – and God loves us.

• It would teach David about the marvelous deliverances of God. ~ When David was at his worst and could find no help anywhere. He flees into the desert, to the cave of Adullam. It is not a palace but it is a refuge.    When we are at our wits’ end ~ when we have let God down badly ~ when we have tried all sorts of desperate measures to extract ourselves from our troubles – it is then that God steps in. He doesn’t always remove the trouble // he seldom does!  BUT he is there to accept us and help us if we turn to him. “God will not let us be tested beyond the level we can bear.” [1 Cor.10:13]

The Bible is full of stories about shepherds and fishermen and farmers and many other ordinary people who responded in faith to God’s call. And when they failed, often miserably and with devastating consequences, God graciously forgave their sins and indiscretions and restored them.

David was just an unknown shepherd boy who made many mistakes ~~ YET God never forsook him ~ and in the light of that there is hope for each and everyone of us!

I don’t know what burden you carry ~ The consequences of a past sin? ~ A current pretense and the fear of being exposed? ~ A sense of failure / towards God / or your family / or your self even ???

BUT  I know this that the God who graciously kept and restored David is the same God who comes to us is Jesus Christ and says “It doesn’t matter who you are or what you have done …28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. ..”  Matthew 11:28

The one who says … 1 John 1:9 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. (NIV)

As a result we can share David’s response — Ps. 52 which he wrote about the episode with Doeg and Ahimelech – he shows the stupidity of evil doing and then writes  … Psalm 52:8-9

8 But I am like an olive tree

flourishing in the house of God;

I trust in God’s unfailing love

for ever and ever.

9 I will praise you for ever for what you have done;

in your name [in you]I will hope, for your name is [you are ] good.

I will praise you in the presence of your saints. (NIV)